The average age people have sex for the first time is around 16 for guys and around 17 for girls. Despite this relatively young age, teacher Anna Thea saysThere is literally almost no education supporting a virgin. And virgins need a lot of support during this rite of passage. But losing your virginity is not a one-size-fits-all experience and the expectations are so high that first-timers are often left disappointed and some people experience pain. What to Expect When Losing Your Virginity: Yes, your first sexual experience with penetrative sex can hurt, and that's why finding the best position to lose virginity can make your first time better and more intimate. Some people naturally have more hymenal tissue than others — this pain and bleeding can happen when their hymen a thin bit of skin that partially covers the vaginal opening gets stretched.
Things to consider There are a lot of myths around sexual activity, one being that your first time having sex bidding hurt. Some people consider femininity to be an act anywhere a penis penetrates a vagina. Others may include oral encouragement, fingering or handjobs, or anal penetration in their definition. Your definition could also include encouragement or penetration with a femininity toy.