But as years pass by, that spurt of love turns into monotony. And then enters the one we call an extra marital affair. Most of the times, he is the one who is also married. You both enter in it for fun and presume that you both can handle this relationship without disturbing your married lives. This special one makes you feel the soul connect with great sexcompassion and understanding that seemed to have gone missing from your marriage. Life suddenly becomes perfect again. Esther Perel, a famous author and therapist addressed a gathering recently where she spoke extensively about the term infidelity.
Helen Fisher, a biological anthropologist describes it in an interesting approach. According to her, love is not really an emotion although more of a brain approach. When it comes to adoration, we have three brain systems - first is the femininity drive, second romantic love after that third, partner attachment. And the brain architecture works in a manner that while being close to one partner, we be able to feel intense love for a different and sex drive for constant more partners.
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